I'm working on part 3 of my blog on guilt, but wanted to give an update because so many people have prayed for me/us the last two weeks.
A couple weeks ago, I wrote here asking that people would pray specifically for my daughter. She is struggling being the "new girl" and misses her friends/and old life in Fort Smith. Two or three events have happened that really helped her meet and feel comfortable with other kids her age. We just so "happened" to be in the right place at the right time.
Many of you know Mrs. Sue. She corresponded with me some, and wrote, "Praying your daughter has someone new move into her room." Well, guess what? Yesterday, a girl switched from another class into my daughter's. This makes 8 girls in her class--an even number. I don't know if they'll be friends or not, but that's not the point. There is an even number of kids in my daughter's class, and now she doesn't feel like the odd one out. Our daughter has a long way to go, but even her teacher wrote me and said she seemed lighter and happier this week.
I've learned and been reminded about several things through this situation:
1) I should be quicker to ask for prayer. That takes humility on my part that I don't always have.
2) God is ready to give good things to His children. I don't have because I don't ask.
3) It's not prayer that automatically "works". God is powerful and He works in His timing.
4) God has a mysterious way of moving when petitioned by older, wiser, godly people. This also happened to me when I first moved to Fort Smith. We were fresh out of seminary, and I needed a part-time job to help with living expenses. Mrs. Sue's husband Arliss, sat across the table from McDonald's and prayed that a church would hire me to do college ministry. I almost laughed. I said "Arliss, you know I love ministry. But no church is going to hire a mom with three kids and no seminary degree to do college ministry." The next week, Pastor Jeff called me into his office and told me to help the church and help my husband at the BCM, and he didn't care who got the credit. For two years, my kids had no idea that I "worked". They thought college and singles had parties at our house and that we went to the church office to get candy from the ladies' desks.
5) I plan on returning to paid work in January now that all of our kids are in school. Arliss and Sue are among the first people I want praying for that job.
In all seriousness, I am extremely grateful for my friends who think about me and pray for me. What a privilege to be a part of the body of Christ.