Every blue moon someone tells me that I like shock value and have an affinity for the spicy things of life. I can't deny that. Sometimes I make people laugh because they have a hard time believing I just said "that". Sometimes I make people uncomfortable. I want you to know, that my motives aren't (solely) to make people's eyes get bigger. I want people's hearts to get bigger.
Doctors will administer cardiogenic shock treatment to a physical heart in order to repair damage caused by lack of oxygen. When it comes to the issue of sex, too many people's spiritual hearts have had an abundance of the world's perspective and very little of God's life breathing words and teaching. I could shout my opinions on this subject all day. But I want you to hear a short testimony from one of my friends. This is a snapshot of the women sitting in your pews at church. This is a story of a married Christian woman who has walked down the middle of a church aisle for her salvation and the middle of a book aisle for her orgasmic motivation. This is a common story with an uncommon, but intended and wonderful ending.
"I recently went through something you've been talking about. I was reading romance novels and romance movies to get "turned on" (excuse my bluntness) or to "spice it up"...until i read a book a friend recommended Sex and the Supremacy of Christ. It was SO good! But I realized just how satan has tainted the beauty of sex and how God intended it to be....a friend was talking to me too around this same time about the book, fiftyshades of grey, and how ever since reading them it has "spiced things up" and that even though it was graphic it was a good story....I was able to tell her I was doing that too until i was convicted after what I had read in the 'God and sex' book. Now that I have a great perspective on God and His intention for sex I was able to tell her how much more I desired my husband than ever! Anyway, God's timing is great! My heart aches for all these married folks who have the world's view of marriage and sex. They have no idea how great marriage and sex can be. God intended so much more for us!!! Same with life in general! I just ache for these that just dont know how great God is!!! PS..i love to follow my husband too!! The view [from behind] IS great!! Ha ha!"
It's not that men's sex drives are too high and women's sex drives are too low. It's that our view of sex is not high enough and our view of God is too low. We are people that are content to settle for someone else's story instead of making our own. We are content to live vicariously through a screen or human author's book instead of living out the pages of the Word that gives abundant life. We accept "fake" and will not work hard for what's real and lasting.
May God bless you. And if you're married, I wrote few words here, so that you can make more time for a fantastic night with your husband.